By Michael Sito

By Michael Sito

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India Journal, Part I - The Adventure Begins


India Journal, Part I
Sunday, January 7-Friday, January 12, 2018

“Then, from a remote part of his soul, from the past of his tired life, he heard a sound.”  From Siddhartha, by Herman Hesse


Sunday, January 7 - Monday, January 8, 2018

After spending a week in New York, I returned to Chicago the afternoon of January 7th for a two-day stopover before I was to head out to India for a month.  I knew squeezing a trip to NYC right before going on an extended journey through the subcontinent would be cutting it close, especially with such a short layover between trips, but there was a Moscow Poker Group “Reunion Tournament” in Brooklyn on Jan. 6th that I wanted to play in and since this was my first time visiting the Big Apple since I lived there, I wanted to have some extra time to visit with old friends, hit some restaurants I missed and spend some time at my favorite NYC dive bar- the Sly Fox.  (I hope to write a blog about this NYC trip sometime in the future, but for now, this short summary will have to suffice.) 

I had a ton of things to do during my two-day Chicago layover, including spending a couple nights at the Ale House before taking such a long reprieve, but I returned home to find a water pipe had burst in my basement.  There was four-to-five inches of water pouring through the entire basement.  It was not the homecoming I wanted, but such is life.  I immediately dropped my luggage at the door and ran downstairs to deal with it.  I spent my entire layover getting my house cleaned and dried out, getting the pipe fixed and stable and getting my stuff together for the long journey.  It wasn’t easy or fun, but when you plan for six months to take a month away from your life half a world away, you have to suck it up and push forward no matter what is thrown at you.  There really isn’t any other way.


Tuesday, January 9, 2018

After an intense day of trying to get as much done from my remaining to-do list, I arrived at O’Hare with just over an hour before my Emirates flight from Chicago to Thiruvananthapuram via Dubai.  When I checked in, the nice lady at the counter obliged my request to change my middle economy seat and gave me an emergency exit window seat for the almost 13 hour flight to Dubai, but I was stuck in a middle seat for the last leg, a 4.5 hour trip from Dubai to Thiruvananthapuram as the flight was “oversold”.   Considering what I had just gone through with the flood, I was grateful to have the window seat for the first, longer leg of the trip.  It was actually a great flight, as by the time you get in the air, settle in and have a few drinks, it’s going on midnight and it’s easy to sleep your natural cycle.  I was totally stressed out and exhausted, so once I put on some blinders and plugged my ears, I passed out for most of the flight.  


Wednesday, January 10, 2018

I arrived in Dubai and went straight to my connecting gate.  I was hoping to change my seat from a middle to an aisle or window- no luck.  No seats had opened up.  I was screwed.   Maybe I would get lucky and would be between two girls.  No such luck.  I boarded and was between two big/overweight guys.  Things were not going my way, but at least I was going to India.  It was not a comfortable flight and since I would be arriving around 3:30am, I tried not to sleep anymore, as I knew I would have to sleep again once on the ground.  I watched a Thai film about a bitter old woman who magically becomes 20 again and decides to take advantage of the change to live the life she always wanted.  It was a decent, though somewhat predictable film. 
I always like watching foreign films and the ones that make it to the major airlines are usually entertaining.  I had wanted a Japanese film, which are some of my favorite foreign films, but none on offer jumped out at me.  They all seemed a bit too “millennial”, focusing on sci-fi stories and gang/violent tales…I was looking for something more philosophical, “Suddenly 20” seemed to fit the bill. 


Thursday, January 11, 2018

Thiruvananthapuram, India.  At 3:30am the airport was totally packed.  I got in the “E-Visa” line to claim my visa.  It was an efficient process, but they took my fingerprints electronically, which I didn’t like or want, but I didn’t really have a choice.  Who knows where those can and will end up?  

Once I got through immigration, it took around an hour for my bags to come out.  I spent the time studying my surroundings.  The airport was literally bursting at the seams with people.  It was loud and chaotic with every conceivable looking ethnicity all around.  I loved it.  When you fly into O’Hare or JFK at 4am the place is deserted, not here.   Also, the smells were potent and diverse going from incense sweet to body odor to exhaust/pollution and back again.  

Watching the conveyor at the baggage claim was also something new.  It seems that Indians shun traditional luggage and travel with boxes.  80-90% of the “baggage” was cardboard boxes either heavily taped up or wrapped in plastic “cling-wrap”.  I have never seen anything like it- one box after another kept rolling out (literally) onto the conveyor belt.   When I was packing in Chicago and checked my baggage allowance, my ticket said “two bags whose dimensions do not exceed 59 inches.”  That means if you measure the length, height and width, the total number of those three sides (in any way) has to be 59 inches or less.  I hadn’t seen that before.  Now, seeing all these boxes rolling down onto the conveyor belt, I realized the meaning of this strange baggage terminology. 

By the time I got through customs it was well past 4am.  I met Irina with her cab driver and we headed to the village of Kovalam (about a half hour drive).  It was dark and there weren’t many lights, so I didn’t get to see much on the drive in, but again, the smells were overpowering and changed often.  The air didn’t smell clean until we got well away from the airport and city.  

After a few hours of lying in bed and unsuccessfully trying to sleep, we all got up and went down to the beach.   It’s about a seven-minute walk from our house.  We’re living in a very green and fertile part of the country.  It’s quite beautiful.  As you walk on little winding streets and pathways, you pass a lot of palm trees, houses, kiosks, some rickshaw drivers trying to coax you into taking them and garbage.  By garbage I mean rubbish- on the sides of the streets, next to sidewalks, in the yards or the houses.  I was actually prepared for this from when I was in Nepal, so it didn’t mean much in the overall scheme of things and there is a natural beauty that actually overpowers it.  That being said, it seems that makeshift garbage dumps are just the way you deal with so much rubbish in over populated and under serviced societies.  The rubbish is usually burned at dawn or dusk every day or two.   

While the beach isn’t something reminiscent of the white sands and sky blue waters of the Caribbean or Hawaii, it is quite beautiful and timeless, which is something I personally love.  There is an old operational lighthouse at one end atop a hill that is clearly something from a different era.  I immediately felt that this place is lost in time and as I laid on the shore taking it all in, I marveled at how, from just viewing my surroundings, the year could just as easily be 1920 instead of 2018.  For me, this was a perfect way to begin this journey/experience and exactly what I hoped for before embarking on it.


My "Timeless Beach" with an operational
lighthouse from a previous era.
My itinerary is fairly straightforward.  I’ll spend a couple weeks down here in Kerala, acclimating to my new surroundings, hopefully avoiding typhoid, Japanese encephalitis and all the other potential hazards that the CDC warns travelers of.  I’ll hang at the beach, while also doing an Ayurveda treatment.  Then, I’ll travel up north for a bit to Delhi, Agra, Varanasi and Rajastan/Jaipur before coming back south.  We are playing with the idea of doing a short trip to Munnar and Cochin for a couple days at the end of the trip, but I’ll see how I feel after the northern journey.  Either way, I will have some more days on my timeless beach before flying back to wintery Chicago in a month.  When I travel to places like this, I prefer not to cram too much into the itinerary.  I take a less is more approach and like to get a feel for the places I visit.  I try to get below the radar instead of just seeing a lot of different places on the surface and jumping around all the time, but this is India- a huge mystical place and I decided to try to at least see a few more places than I usually would to get a better lay of the land, as there is a high likelihood that I will return and it would be good to have a bit more knowledge for follow-up trips.


Friday, January 12, 2018

My second day here.  We started by going by to the beach.  All the stress from the flooding of my beloved house has disappeared.  I have started reading Dreams from Bunker Hill by John Fante.  I stumbled upon this book in Myopic Books on Milwaukee Ave in Wicker Park when I went to find some reading material for this trip.   Myopic is a great bookstore, which are getting harder and harder to find these days.  I hadn’t heard of this title before, but have always loved Fante, so this was an easy pick-up.   Just reading the first few chapters, I can tell it is going to be a good one.   I learned from the biography in the back that Fante wrote this book by dictating it to his wife after he went blind late in life.  It is his last novel.  The voice is classic Fante, but also a bit more mature that the early Bandini Chronicles with tight, pithy sentences that jump off the page.   It is easy to hear his influence on Bukowski, who once called Fante his “savior”.  

After spending half a day on the beach, we decide to eat some lunch and then take a rickshaw into the main city for me to get a better understanding of my surroundings.  Lunch was tasty- butter marsala, some spicy Indian chicken, French fries and naan bread….it was all delicious and cost around $12 and it was enough for three of us to have lunch.  India is very cheap for the value if you go beyond the top tier hotels.  For instance, the house we are renting is only $350/month.  It isn’t elegant or upper class, but it is a two bedroom, two and a half bath with a kitchen and living room.  It is clean and comfortable.  

After lunch we went home, changed and then grabbed a rickshaw into the city.  The rickshaw is a very Asian mode of travel and it somehow fits into the organized chaos that is seen when driving on the roads and in the cities.  There aren’t any lanes to stay in or even a median dividing the traffic- it’s a free-for-all with everyone grabbing any space forward that they can find.  It’s pure madness and it’s something I totally enjoy…except for the pollution, which is quite heavy once you’re in the thick of city traffic inching forward next to a bus’s tailpipe for five minutes.  Indian cities are, on the most part, manky, loud and intense.  Personally, I think it is best to avoid them whenever possible, but of course, they are a necessary evil and the big cities should be visited at least once.  They do have a cultural appeal despite the shortcomings. 

As before, the smells of India continue to prove overpowering.  You go from fresh air on the beach, to incense filled rooms in restaurants and shops to smog and fumes on the streets with sewage smells and decaying or burning rubbish hanging in pockets all about.  It is quite a sensory attack on one’s system and after 45 minutes in the rickshaw, I wasn’t feeling positive vibes.  I was feeling a bit light headed from the exhaust fumes though.

We stopped in the center of town and walked around a bit.  We passed a clothing store and went in.  There were some cool things on offer, so I decided to pick some up an India inspired addition to my wardrobe.  I bought a few pairs of pants, a couple pairs of shorts, three button down shirts and a backpack for a total of $90.  Amazingly cheap and (seemingly) of good quality.  I may go to a tailor to get a custom Indian style dress shirt/coat for special occasions.    

With Seeshoo in his rickshaw driving around town
After a few more stops around the city, I had had enough and wanted to leave it for our village.  We decided to head out.  On the way back to our village we had our rickshaw driver (who stayed with us all day) give a little tour of the countryside around our village.  His name is Seeshoo and he has known Irina since she first started coming here 12 years ago.  She always uses him when she visits.  Seeshoo has been driving a rickshaw for 40 years.  He’s 56 years old and has a civil, gentlemanly temperament, like many of the locals I meet here.  

It seems that, at least outwardly, the society here is quite centered and philosophical about things despite the poverty that is all about.  Crime, theft and assault do not seem to be anything to worry about, but that may be an issue up north in Delhi and the other places we will go, but for now, everything feels safe, comfortable and relaxed.  


Spinach Fields of red and green
On our tour back, Seeshoo took us to a beautiful and extremely fertile area where many produce farms are located.  We stopped at one where they grow, among other crops, red and green spinach.  There was this sea of red and green in a marsh-like field that appeared endless with rolling hills in the background.  It was quite vibrant and beautiful in the late afternoon sun.    We then went to a scenic overpass with a lake down below.  A great view and steep drop down.  We took some photos and I was informed that the place is called Suicide Ridge, as this is the place where the most suicides in the region happen.  Another tidbit is that Kerala, the region we are in, is the suicide capital of India.  I am not sure why this is or why they took me here on my first tour, but it’s a really beautiful view despite this unfortunate fact.  
Suicide Ridge- It's a long drop down a steep cliff

We then went to an elevated ridgeline up the road to watch the sunset.  After, we started heading back to the village.  We stopped for dinner along the way and had a great chicken curry, some Asian egg noodles and a schwarma at an Indian/Arabic restaurant.  It was really tasty and again, really cheap ($15).  We took the leftovers back with us.  The jet lag was now catching up to me, so when we got home, we stayed in for the rest of the night.  I read some more Fante and crashed. 




Fertile, green landscape is the main characteristic of Kerala









My Ayurveda treatment starts tomorrow.  Despite asking many questions about how it will be and what they will do, I have yet to receive any detailed answers and have no idea.  I’m looking forward to it nonetheless…


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https://libertinereflections.blogspot.com/2018/02/india-journal-part-ii.html

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